Friday, August 04, 2006

Ever you felt this way?

I am so looking forward to the weekend, but I am not looking forward to Monday morning at 5am when the alarm sounds to get me out of bed to start my new week! Ever felt this way?
I enjoy my time outside of the office, and at times I feel as if I way too many other important things to do than be at work. I am grateful I have a job, and very grateful it pays the bills, but the older I get the more I would love to do something I LOVE to do.

I have a friend, whom I am going to call Co-worker, who is going through a hard time right now. Co-worker is in a new "great" relationship with a great man, and they plan to be married. The trouble is the new couple in this "great" relationship have tons of issues as a couple, and they each have personal issues. I have listened to Co-worker several times talk about her relationship. I have expressed my opinion some, but not completely come out & said what I really want to say (I know a first for me!). How do I come out and tell Co-worker I think she is making a huge mistake? What do I say to her & How do I say it? I truly respect and love Co-worker & I do not want to hurt her. Co-worker is a Christian. She is praying about her issues, but she's lost at the moment. She already knows what she should do, but I do not think she is strong enough to deal with everything going on in her life at the moment. I believe she wants me to "tell" her what to do, but it's not my life.......She needs to take responsibility for herself and her relationship. Please pray for Co-worker. I feel helpless as a friend. Ever felt this way?

1 comment:

Rebeccalynn_dj said...

I think that if you don't know how to say it to "co-worker" maybe you should not. The best thing you can do for her is to continue to pray. You have to have the right relationship with a person tell them something like that.

Someone once told me that if its the Lords will for a person to hear it, there heart will be more open.

Its a tough one Tammy, I am sorry.

Rebecca